Attentiveness vs. Distraction
Showing the worth of a person or task by
giving my undivided concentration.
Attentiveness in the home includes:
·
Showing
support for each other by listening to ideas without immediately getting
irritated or finding fault with them.
·
Encouraging
other family members by expressing an interest in their activities.
·
Setting
aside time to listen with eyes and ears to a family member's counsel and
concerns.
·
Spending
time alone with family members to listen to their interests and make them feel
important.
·
Knowing
what each family member enjoys so that extra touches can be added to birthday
celebrations and other special occasions.
I
will...
·
look
at people when they speak to me.
·
ask
questions if I don't understand.
·
sit or
stand straight.
·
not
draw attention to myself.
·
keep
my eyes, ears, hands, feet, and mouth from distraction.
Rewards of attentiveness
Respect From Others
An attentive person enjoys the
respect of others as they value his opinion the way he has valued theirs.
Key to Knowledge
You will discover that the secret to
learning is asking as many questions as you can and listening carefully to the
answers.
"A good listener is
not only popular everywhere, but after a while he knows something." – Wilson Mizner